We want to think that we can leave marital problems at home, but we as humans were not designed to be that way quite simply put.    Marital problems, as well as other problems, actually yank profit from businesses, regardless of how small.     Do you want proof?

Let’s say one spouse is upset with the other and they go to their separate, or same place of work (as is the case with family businesses).   Ordinarily, these 2 people walk together so closely, it is as though they are a seamless pair.    One thinks it and the other is already doing it.    That is true unity and the way it is supposed to be.    Their subconscious is actually connected to one another on a deeper level.     Being in love, one might not always “feel” in love, depending upon having young children and losing sleep (often a by product of having children close in age).    Well, just using my husband as an example, he can meet someone and within a good minute, have them summed up…correctly I might add.     It bothers me to think that one day we might have an argument and I might make a business decision that I would regret because I did not bother to consult with him because I had given myself  license to carry over unforgiveness into the next day.     Do you see how dangerous that can be?    There is a domino effect with other decisions being made inefficiently due to our minds, not made to hold a lot of bad “stuff” , have to deal with moving around the bad “stuff” and come up with decisions that take all factors into account.

How can I unofficially prove that unforgiveness occupies the part of the brain that would otherwise render us really effective problem solvers?   Easy.    Try, one day, thinking of all of the people that you feel have done you or your family wrongly.    Then, practice every time you think of that offence, saying, “I forgive them.    That person is no longer indepted to me to owe me an apology.  I also do not want to see them nor their family suffering harm.”    Pretty soon, even if you can just say, “I release forgiveness, forgiveness, forgiveness”, thus letting it settle into your subconscious that you are purposefully overriding your past ways of thinking, profitable and very different business ideas will literally come to you.

Happiness and true joy will be able to settle into you and will no longer be fleeting.   Guard your mind and guard your heart against every weight and wrong doing and it becomes such a way of life that you may actually feel healthier.     Some cancer and arthritis patients seem to have unforgiveness towards someone or something in their past.    As is publicly known, this  link with these ailments and unforgiveness is being closely explored.   (Ever heard someone say such and such is eating at me.    See the relationship of unforgiveness to *cancer and arthritis.     Both ailments are characterized by eating up something that is supposed to be there.

You can institute all of the most wonderful marketing schemes and use the most high-powered advertising firms with the money of a multi-billionnaire.     But realize, even you can still lose money hand over fist with this type of problem lurking in the shadows.

*This in no way indicates that all cancers or athritises are linked to unforgiveness.    Dear Mr. FDA, please don’t sue me.    These statements are not meant to diagnose, treat nor cure any disease or ailment.

I have a Bachelor of Business Administration, and am achieving a Masters Degree in Counseling from Liberty University.    I have experience across various industries and I welcome you asking me to come train members of your team or company, or even church coference.

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